Being intimate with your partner is one of the most enjoyable ways to strengthen your relationship, and research has shown that couples who have sex at least once a week are happier than those who spend less time between the sheets. But while frequent sex can certainly bring you closer, it’s inevitable that your sex life can fall into a rut, especially if you have children or have been together for years. If things are getting a little monotonous in the bedroom, don’t fret. Here are some fun ways to breathe new life into your sex life.
1. Invest In A Few Sex Toys
If you need a bit of variety in the way you have sex, consider investing in a few sex toys. Having a sex toy is kind of like adding a third party to the bedroom, but without the emotional attachment and repercussions.
Women can use a vibrator for clitoral stimulation or penetration, while men can experiment with a fleshlight, which is a toy that simulates oral or vaginal intercourse.
If you’d like to experiment with bondage, add some cuffs into your sex toy collection, as well as a nice blindfold if you’d like to engage in sensation play.
2. Take It Outside The Bedroom
Sex doesn’t always have to take place in the bedroom. Switch it up by doing it on the kitchen table, on the counter, up against the wall, in the shower, in the hallway, on the couch, or on the stairs.
The new locations will enable you to be more creative with sex positions, and it will help to keep your sex life interesting.
This is probably easier for couples who don’t have children, so for those who have little ones around, try doing this once in a while when they’re asleep or when they’re in school or with the grandparents.
3. Get Kinky
Shed your inhibitions and get a little kinky with your partner. If you’re not ready to go full-on Fifty Shades of Grey with your loved one, start slow.
Perhaps you’d like to try a little food play by licking chocolate sauce, honey or whipped cream off each other while you’re having sex. Or maybe you’d like to add a little more dirty talk to your bedroom repertoire.
If you’re feeling self-conscious about indulging your kinky side, consider taking a little CBD before sex. Taking CBD gummies or using CBD vape pens can help you to loosen up, feel calm, and make sex feel amazing.
4. Go On A Sex Getaway
If your home life is causing you to have less than stellar sex, then plan a staycation for sex with your partner. A clean hotel room with an amazing view and room service can inspire you to get frisky.
What’s more, you get all the privacy that you need to give your loved one your undivided attention during your mini getaway.
Strengthen your bond by bringing the spark back into your sex life. Be adventurous, and don’t hesitate to try new things – you may be surprised at what a little playfulness can do to make your sex life amazing.