1. Don’t Text To Avoid Phone Conversation
Starting out, it can be nerve-racking to call a woman you just met. Call anxiety might get the best of you and keep you from setting up true comfort. Using texting as a way to refrain calling her is only going to hurt you in the long run. The point here is to set up a day two. The likelihood that you will set this up with her through texting is feasible but less effective.
Bear in mind that if you’re texting because you’re afraid of the interaction with a woman, then how will you deal with interacting with her in person?
2. Do Not Seek Approval When Texting, Give It
”What’s up?” and ”What are you doing tonight?” are examples of value-seeking texts. These texts will make you look needy and invoke no emotion in the woman you are contacting. They also don’t portray any side of your personality.
Examples of value giving texts are…
”I just saw a guy wearing a fanny pack and it reminded me of you.”
”Hey, dork! 🙂 I bet you are operating at a level of 100% dorkiness today.”
What do you call a fish with no eyes?” Wait for her response before giving the answer, ”Fssshhh.”
3. Avoid Sending Too Many Messages!
If she is the only thing on your mind, don’t be eager to let herin on the secret. You might freak her out. Text her once, and only once until you get a response. If you don’t get a response wait until tomorrow before sending another text.
Also, give it some time after you get a text before you respond. Remember being non-needy always equals sexy because it conveys that you must have other dating options in your life.
Use pacing. If she texts you back right away, text her back right away. If she takes 10 minutes, take 10 minutes to respond.
Neil Strauss revealed the basis of emerging as an brilliant Pick up Artist and put them into his best selling book The Game.